My Child Hates The Car …. HELP!

If your little one cries the moment they are strapped into the car seat, you are definitely not alone. It is one of the most common concerns parents raise with me.
The good news? There is usually a reason, and often a few simple changes can make a big difference.
Things to consider:
Check comfort first
• Is the harness fitted correctly?
• Are they too hot or too cold?
• Are there bulky clothes affecting the fit?
• Is the seat reclined appropriately for their age?
A great tip is once fastened into the car seat use a doubled over blanket and tuck it in around them. This is like a swaddle effect, keeping them warm and snug offering the extra support they may need.
Timing matters
• Avoid leaving immediately before a feed if possible.
• A hungry baby is rarely a happy passenger. Offer a feed just before getting into the car
• Equally, some babies dislike being placed in the car straight after a large feed. It will be a trial and error with either of these.
Look at the bigger picture
• Is your little one overtired?
• Have they had enough awake time before the trip? Could they be bored and seeking stimulation?
• Sometimes the car is not the problem at all — it is simply where the emotions spill over.
Provide reassurance
• Talk, sing or play gentle music. White noise for the win
• Your voice is often far more comforting than any toy.
Consider age-appropriate distractions
• A favourite soft toy (attached safely).
• A mirror designed for vehicle use.
• Rotating toys to keep them interesting.
Check the environment
• Is the sun shining directly on them?
• Is the vehicle too warm?
• Are they uncomfortable due to bright light?
Start small
• If car travel has become stressful, try short trips with no pressure.
• A quick drive around the block can help rebuild positive associations.
Just don’t do them all at once, try one change at a time so you know what works
Remember…
Some babies simply do not enjoy the car. It does not mean you are doing anything wrong. Like all things parenting, there is rarely a one-size-fits-all answer. The key is working out why your little one is unhappy.
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